大生要旨云∶大寒之后,必有阳春,天地之道,不蛰封则不发育也。今人之无子者,
往往勤于色欲,岂知施泄无度,阳精必薄,纵欲适情,真气乃伤,妄欲得子,其能孕乎?夫
男象天主施,女象地主受,一施一受,其妊始成。今其所施,全非先天浓郁之气,不过
后天浇漓渣滓之物。纵使阴受可化,而实无阳施之用矣。故有心种子者,毋伤于思虑,毋
耗其心神,毋意驰于外而内虚,毋志伤于内而外驳,毋以酒为色媒,毋以药而助火,葆
精汇神,静养日久,及至阴阳交媾,两神相搏,其一点先天元真之气,勃勃生育之机,即
寓于情欲大动之时,万举而万当矣。《内经》云∶阴平阳秘,精神乃治,阴阳离决,精气
乃绝。《老子》曰∶必清必静,毋摇尔精。《人镜经》曰∶精气盛则生二男。谚云∶寡欲
多男子。历历名言,不特老而无子者,当奉为龟鉴,即壮年难子者,亦须尊为节符。寡
欲广嗣篇云∶世人无不急于生子,亦知生子之道,精气交媾,熔液成胎。故少欲之人恒
多子,且易育,气固而精凝也。多欲之人恒艰子,且易天,气泄而精薄也。譬之酿酒然,
斗米下斗水,则酒浓,且耐久,其质全也。斗米倍下水,则淡,三倍四倍,则酒非酒水非
水矣,其真元少也。今人夜夜淫纵,遍御外家婢,精气妄泄,邪火上升,邪火愈炽,真阳
愈枯,安能成胎?即侥幸生子,亦不能育,或殇于痘,或殇于惊。痘者热毒,惊者热风。毒
者,父母之真精不足。风者,父母之真气不固也。昔有人艰于子息,医者教以节欲静摄,
勿劳心神,心静则精不摇,神完则气不走。每妻经净,乃一交媾,否则各榻,如是半年,妻
果有娠。娠后即异榻,足月之后,果生男子,后来天花只三五粒。彼求子而广蓄婢外家,不
知节欲,岂有当哉?
The *Da Sheng Yao Zhi* (Essentials of Great Life) states: After the severe cold, there must be a warm spring; this is the way of heaven and earth. If one does not hibernate and seal [energy], development cannot occur. Nowadays, those who are childless often engage in sexual activity with diligence. Do they not know that excessive ejaculation leads to thin seminal essence? Indulging desires to gratify emotions injures the True Qi (vital energy). Can one who vainly wishes for offspring conceive? The man corresponds to Heaven, which bestows; the woman corresponds to Earth, which receives. Only through this bestowing and receiving can pregnancy begin. What is currently bestowed is entirely lacking the dense Qi of the Pre-Heaven (innate constitution); it is merely the dregs of the Post-Heaven (acquired constitution). Even if the Yin can transform it, the function of Yang's bestowal is truly lost. Therefore, those who wish for offspring should not injure themselves with overthinking, nor deplete their Shen (Spirit). Let not the mind wander outward causing internal emptiness, nor let the will be injured inwardly causing external disorder. Do not use alcohol as an intermediary for lust, nor use drugs to assist fire. Preserve Jing (Essence), gather Shen, and nourish quietly for a long time. When Yin and Yang unite, and the two Shens collide, that single point of Pre-Heaven Yuan Zhen Qi (Primordial True Energy), the vigorous mechanism of life, resides at the moment of great sexual arousal. In this way, every action will be appropriate. The *Nei Jing* (Inner Canon) says: "When Yin is peaceful and Yang is secreted/stable, Spirit governs; when Yin and Yang separate and rupture, Essence and Qi perish." Laozi said: "Be clear and quiet; do not shake your Jing." The *Ren Jing Jing* (Mirror Classic of Humanity) says: "When Jing and Qi are abundant, two sons are born." The proverb says: "Few desires yield many men." These clear words serve not only as a mirror for the old who have no children but also as a rule of restraint for the young who struggle to conceive. The chapter *Gua Yu Guang Si Pian* (Chapter on Few Desires and Numerous Heirs) states: People are eager to have children, knowing that conception relies on the union of Jing and Qi, melting into a fetus. Thus, those with few desires often have many children and raise them easily because their Qi is solid and Jing is condensed. Those with many desires struggle to conceive and their children often die young because Qi leaks and Jing is thin. It is like brewing wine: one dou of rice with one dou of water yields strong, durable wine with complete quality. One dou of rice with double the water yields weak wine; triple or quadruple water makes it neither wine nor water, for its primordial essence is diminished. Today, people indulge nightly, engaging with many external concubines, leaking Jing wantonly. Evil Fire rises; the fiercer the evil fire, the more withered the True Yang becomes. How can a fetus form? Even if a child is luckily born, they cannot be raised, dying either from smallpox or fright. Smallpox is heat-toxin; fright is wind-heat. Toxin arises from insufficient True Jing of parents; wind arises from unconsolidated True Qi of parents. Once, someone struggled with infertility. A physician advised him to restrain desires and practice quiet preservation, not to labor the heart-mind. When the heart is quiet, Jing does not shake; when Shen is complete, Qi does not flee. He engaged in intercourse only once after his wife's menstruation ceased; otherwise, they slept in separate beds. After half a year, his wife conceived. They separated beds during pregnancy. At full term, a son was born, who later had only three or five spots of smallpox. That man sought heirs by hoarding concubines and women outside, yet did not know how to restrain desires. Was this appropriate?