袁了凡先生云∶天地生物,必有氤氲之时,万物化生,必有乐育之时。猫犬至微,将受
娠也,其雌必狂呼而奔跳,以氤氲乐育之气触之而不能自止耳,此天然之节候,生化之真机
也。世人种子,有云∶三十时辰两日半,二十八九君须算。此特言其大概耳,非的论也。《
丹经》云∶一月止有一日,一日止有一时。凡妇人一月经行一度,必有一日氤氲之候,于一
时辰间,气蒸而热,昏而闷,有欲交接不可忍之状,此的候也。于此时逆而取之则成丹(须得逆取之道,待之便是筑基,
此先天气生时也),顺
而施之则成胎矣。其曰三日月出庚,又曰温温铅鼎,光透帘帏,皆言其景象也。当其欲情浓
动之时,子宫内有如莲花蕊者,不拘经净几日,自然挺出阴中,如莲蕊初开,内人洗下体,以
手探之自知也,但含羞不肯言耳,男子预密告之,令其自言,一举即中矣。
褚尚书求男论云∶建平孝王妃姬,皆丽无子,择民家未笄女子入御,又无子。问曰,求男有道乎?澄对曰∶
合
男女必当其年。男虽十六而精通,必三十而娶;女虽十四而天癸至,必二十而嫁(今有年二十而乳子者,亦事之变也),
皆欲阴阳完实,然后交而孕,孕而育,育而子坚壮强寿。今未笄之女,天
癸始至,已近男色,阴气早泄,未完而伤,未实而动,是以交而不孕,孕而不育,育而子脆
不寿,此王之所以无子也。然妇人有所产皆女者,有所产皆男者,大王诚能访求多男妇人至
宫府,有男之道也(方是求子一法)。王曰善。未再期,生六男。夫老阳遇少阴,老阴遇少阳,亦有子之道也
Mr. Yuan Liaofan said: The heaven and earth, in generating all things, must have a time of *yinyun* (the state of yin-yang interaction and qi blending); the transformation and birth of all things must have a time of *leyu* (vitality flourishing and nurturing joy). Even cats and dogs, which are minute creatures, when about to conceive, will cry wildly and run and jump because they are touched by the qi of *yinyun* and *leyu* and cannot restrain themselves. This is the natural rhythm and the true mechanism of biological generation.
People discussing seed planting (conception) say: "Thirty hours plus two and a half days, you must calculate twenty-eight or twenty-nine." This merely states the general rule, not an exact theory. The *Dan Jing* (Scripture on Alchemy) says: In a month, there is only one day; in a day, there is only one hour. Whenever a woman menstruates once a month, there must be one day of *yinyun* condition, within one hour, where qi steams and heats, causing dizziness and stuffiness, with an unbearable desire for sexual intercourse. This is the exact timing. If one acts against this flow at this time, one can refine the elixir (one must obtain the method of reverse extraction; waiting is building the foundation, this is when pre-heaven qi generates); if one acts in accordance with it, conception occurs. The phrases "the third moon appears at Geng" and "warm lead cauldron, light penetrating the curtains" both describe these phenomena.
When sexual desire is strongly aroused, inside the uterus, there is something like a lotus stamen that naturally protrudes from the vagina, regardless of how many days have passed since menstruation ended, resembling a newly opened lotus. Women wash their lower body and can know this by probing with their hand, though they may be shy to speak of it. Men should secretly inform them beforehand, prompting them to speak of it themselves, ensuring immediate success.
The Shangshu Chu's discourse on seeking sons states: The concubines of the Princess Dowager of Jianping were beautiful but childless. They selected unmarried girls from common families to serve in the palace, yet still had no children. The Princess asked, "Is there a way to seek sons?" Cheng replied, "Union between men and women must occur at appropriate ages. Although a man's essence may flow freely at sixteen, he must wait until thirty to marry; although a woman's *tian gui* (menstrual blood/sexual maturity) arrives at fourteen, she must wait until twenty to marry (though some now nurse infants at twenty, this is a variation of events). All this is so that yin and yang are complete and solid before intercourse leads to pregnancy, pregnancy leads to childbirth, and childbirth yields strong, healthy, and long-lived offspring. Now, girls who have not come of age, whose *tian gui* has just begun, approach men too early, causing premature leakage of yin qi. Their bodies are incomplete and injured, their essence un-solidified yet moving recklessly. Thus, intercourse fails to produce pregnancy; if pregnant, it fails to nurture; if born, the child is fragile and short-lived. This is why the Prince had no sons. However, some women bear only daughters, others only sons. If Your Highness could seek out women who have borne many sons into the palace, there would be a way to obtain male heirs (this is one method of seeking children). The Prince said, 'Good.' Within a year, six sons were born. The meeting of old yang with young yin, and old yin with young yang, is also a way to have children."